I want to talk about 1 Peter 3:1-4 for a minute. Now I am sure there are going to be a few Christian men who decided to read the whole article this time and a few Christian women who have decided they may no longer like me. But in normal Farley fashion (that’s my last name) I am going to put a little different spin on it. My thoughts on 1 Peter 3:1-4 actually stem Jeremiah 29:7 which I have been spending a good deal of time thinking about.
Jeremiah 29:7 (NLT)
And work for the peace and prosperity of the city where I sent you into exile. Pray to the LORD for it, for its welfare will determine your welfare.
1 Peter 3:1-4 (NLT)
1 In the same way, you wives must accept the authority of your husbands. Then, even if some refuse to obey the Good News, your godly lives will speak to them without any words. They will be won over
2 by observing your pure and reverent lives.
3 Don’t be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes.
4 You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God.
When the nation of Israel was in Babylonian captivity God spoke to them through Jeremiah and told them to work for and pray for the peace and welfare of the city. In 1 Peter 3, Peter tells the women to work for the peace and welfare of their husbands. I love that. Too many people try and use the words of 1 Peter to mean something without understand the point of the verses. It is not about some abstract submission for the sake of submission. It is about serving and giving. It is about loving and wanting the best for the other person. What Peter says to women here the Bible speaks to all people. Serve one another, win them to Christ by love and compassion. Give the best to them. Don’t worry so much about how you look or what you wear. Take care of yourself but they are not going to come to Christ because you look like a model, or drive a Bentley. Pray for them and work for their welfare.
The goal of it all is that Christ is honored and glorified. That men (and women) come to faith and repentance in Him. All that we do should be to bring Jesus to them. We are a body and as a body we should mobile. Don’t just invite people to Church on Sunday bring it to them on Monday. Bring the good news with you when you go to work, bring it home when you get there. Show your husbands why Jesus is better, show your wives why Jesus is greater, show your children why His love is more. Seek the peace and welfare of those around you. Pray for your family, for your neighbors, for your nation. Don’t nag your spouse, your government to death. Instead nurture and foster love and faith in Christ.
I’m not going to say any more on that, but I do want to drop a sentence of two about 1 Peter 3:7. Men do you feel like God is not listening to you? Do you feel like no matter what you do you cannot seem to get ahead spiritually? Make sure you read verse 7, and then make sure you live it. Keep it in the forefront of your mind and make sure you remember it.
Just a thought,